Welcome to our unique Baby Making Assessment (BMA) – the first step for couples contemplating parenthood. In this simple, registration-free process, each partner independently completes a set of multiple-choice questions in about 15-20 minutes. After both have participated, you'll receive a detailed report comparing your responses, highlighting areas of agreement and difference, and providing an overall compatibility score. We ensure your privacy throughout this insightful journey, requiring no financial information and keeping all answers confidential. Dive into this thoughtful exploration together and unlock meaningful conversations about your potential future as parents. Good luck! Your Name Your Email Partner Name Partner Email If our child wanted to become a vegetarian at age 10, how would you respond? Encourage and support their choice Insist on a balanced diet including meat Discuss the reasons and consider a trial period question1 If our 8-year-old was being bullied at school, what would be your first step? Contact the school to address the issue Teach our child how to stand up for themselves Consider changing schools if the problem persists question3 Suppose our teenager wanted to go on a solo trip abroad. What’s your stance? Absolutely not, it's too risky Support the idea if they demonstrate responsibility Agree, but only to safe and familiar locations question2 If our child struggled academically, would you prefer to: Hire a private tutor Encourage them to put in more effort and find resources themselves Explore alternative learning styles or schools question4 How would you react if our 12-year-old wanted to dye their hair an unconventional color? Allow them to express themselves Say no, it’s not appropriate Compromise on temporary colors question5 How would you approach our child’s request to adopt a pet, knowing it requires a lot of responsibility? Agree, if they prove they can handle the responsibility Decline, citing the commitment and effort required Compromise with a less demanding pet question6 If our teenager expressed a desire to skip college in favor of starting their own business, would you: Discourage it and push for a college education Support their entrepreneurial spirit fully Suggest they take business courses first question7 How would you address discovering our child is experimenting with vaping or smoking at 15? Implement strict consequences Have an open discussion about the risks Monitor them closely without direct confrontation question8 If our child was caught cheating on a test, how would you handle it? Insist on them facing the school’s consequences Defend them to minimize punishment Use it as a learning experience about integrity question9 Suppose our 16-year-old wanted to get a significant tattoo. Your response? Absolutely oppose it until they’re older Support their decision—it’s their body Require a waiting period to ensure they’re sure question10 If our child was invited to an overnight party at a friend’s house you don’t know well, would you: Say no, it’s not safe Allow them, trusting their judgment Meet the friend’s parents first before deciding question11 Imagine our child wanted to drop out of a sports team because they weren’t a starter. Would you: Encourage them to stick with it and improve Support their decision to quit Discuss the value of commitment and teamwork question12 If our child frequently used their phone at the dinner table, how would you address it? Ban phones during meal times Ignore it as long as they’re participating in conversation Set specific times when phone use is acceptable question13 Should our child decide to become politically active in a cause you don’t agree with, how would you react? Discourage them and explain your views Support their right to their own opinions Engage in open dialogue to understand their perspective question14 If our teenager showed interest in a dangerous sport, like rock climbing or motocross, would you: Forbid it due to safety concerns Encourage them with proper safety measures Compromise on a less risky activity question15 How would you handle our child refusing to attend family gatherings? nsist they attend, emphasizing family importance Allow them to decide to promote independence Negotiate attendance at major events only question16 If our child wanted to take a gap year to travel before starting college, would you: Discourage it, preferring they start college immediately Support the idea for personal growth Agree, if they plan it responsibly question17 Upon discovering our child has a significant other you disapprove of, how would you approach it? Directly express your disapproval Keep an open mind and get to know the person Advise our child discreetly on healthy relationships question18 If our child was offered a great job opportunity in another country after graduation, would you: Encourage taking the opportunity Prefer they stay closer to home Support them, with regular visits planned question19 How would you respond if our child decided to adopt a radically different lifestyle or belief system? Try to steer them back to family values Embrace their choices unconditionally Engage in discussions to understand their perspective question20 Should our child want to pursue an education or career you consider impractical, how would you react? Discourage them and suggest more viable options Support their dreams regardless of practicality Encourage them while discussing backup plans question21 If faced with our child's unexpected teen pregnancy, how would you address it? Emphasize the consequences and insist on a traditional resolution Support their choices and help them navigate the situation Seek professional advice together to explore options question22 How would you approach our child’s desire to change their appearance in a way you find extreme (e.g., piercing, hair)? Set clear boundaries on what’s acceptable Allow them full freedom of expression Compromise on temporary or reversible changes question23 If our child showed no interest in college or trade school after high school, would you: Insist on further education as non-negotiable Support their decision to enter the workforce Discuss alternative paths to success, like apprenticeships question24 How many babies do you desire to have? 1 2 3 4+ question28 Your early teenage son tells you that he believes he's gay; how do you feel? Generally happy and supportive Generally upset and unsupportive I'm not sure question33 Your twelve year old daughter was caught by your spouse communicating with a 19 year old man. You immediately spoke to your daughter, investigated the situation and contacted the police immediately for resolution. How much do you agree with this approach? Generally Agree Generally Disagree I'm not sure question34 I'm adding a new question to ensure it shows up on the pdf. Answer 1 2 3 question37 Time's up
